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Fake calls and AI voices that sound like family

How the “grandparent” scam works, AI voice cloning, warning signs, a family safe word, and what to do if you already paid.

Quick answer

Scammers call pretending to be a grandchild or relative in trouble, and some use AI to copy a loved one’s voice. Warning signs: an emergency, a plea for secrecy, pressure to pay now, and gift cards, cash couriers, wires or crypto. Hang up and call your family member on a number you know, and agree on a family safe word. Never hand cash to a courier. If you paid, call your bank or gift card company right away and report it.

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Your checklist

  • Know the warning signs
  • Hang up and call family directly
  • Use a family safe word
  • Never pay with gift cards or crypto
  • Never hand cash to a courier
  • Paid? Call your bank and report fast

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How it works

A caller pretends to be a grandchild, child or other relative in an emergency: arrested, in an accident, stuck abroad. Sometimes a second person pretends to be a lawyer or officer. Some scammers use AI to copy a voice from short videos posted online.

Warning signs

  • An urgent emergency.
  • “Please don’t tell Mom and Dad.”
  • Pressure to pay immediately.
  • Payment by gift cards, cash pickup by a courier, wire transfer, payment apps or cryptocurrency.

What to do

  • Hang up, even if the voice sounds exactly right.
  • Call your family member directly on a number you already have, or call their parents.
  • Ask a question only they could answer.
  • Agree on a family safe word ahead of time.
  • Never hand cash to someone who comes to your door. Courts and police don’t collect bail that way.

If you already paid

Act fast: call your bank, payment app or the gift card company, report it at ReportFraud.ftc.gov and to local police, and tell family. These scams fool careful people every day; there’s no shame in reporting.

Official sources, and where to look

To find your local office, search for:

  • FTC family emergency scam
  • [your city] police non-emergency report scam

Pick sites that end in .gov. Official forms are almost always free.

Common questions

Can scammers really copy a voice?

Yes. AI tools can imitate a voice from short recordings. That’s why calling back on a known number and using a safe word matter. More ›

How do scammers know my grandchild’s name?

Often from social media posts. Families can limit what they share publicly. More ›

What is the grandparent scam?

A caller pretends to be a grandchild in trouble, often asking for bail or hospital money and begging you to keep it secret. More ›

Can AI really copy my grandchild’s voice?

Yes. Voice cloning tools can imitate someone from short clips posted online. Always call back on a number you know. More ›

What is a family safe word?

A word or phrase only your family knows, used to confirm a caller is really who they say in an emergency. More ›

Would police or a court send someone to collect bail money?

No. Real bail is paid through the court or jail, not to a courier at your door. More ›

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