Question 1

Do I have to move out after being served?

Accepted Answer

Not just because you were served. Who stays in the home is decided by agreement or court order. Get advice before moving.

Question 2

Can I use our joint money for a lawyer?

Accepted Answer

Often reasonable use is allowed, but automatic orders vary. Keep records and ask a lawyer or the self-help center.

Question 3

How long do I have to respond to divorce papers?

Accepted Answer

It depends on your state, often 20 to 30 days from when you were served. Your papers should state the deadline.

Question 4

What happens if I don’t respond to divorce papers?

Accepted Answer

The court may grant the divorce by default, possibly giving your spouse what they asked for about property, support and custody.

Question 5

What are automatic restraining orders in a divorce?

Accepted Answer

Temporary orders in some states that start when a divorce is filed, limiting things like moving kids out of state, emptying accounts or canceling insurance.

Question 6

Can I contest a divorce?

Accepted Answer

You can dispute the terms, like property or custody. In most states you can’t stop the divorce itself if your spouse wants it.

Question 7

Do I need a lawyer to respond to divorce papers?

Accepted Answer

Not always. Court self-help centers have forms. A lawyer helps with kids, property, a business, or if your spouse has a lawyer.

Question 8

Should I move out after being served?

Accepted Answer

Get advice first. Moving out can affect custody and property decisions in some situations.

Common questions: Served divorce papers