Question 1

At what age should someone stop driving?

Accepted Answer

There’s no set age. It depends on health and abilities. Focus on safety and warning signs, not birthdays.

Question 2

What if my parent refuses to stop driving?

Accepted Answer

Involve their doctor, consider a professional driving evaluation, and check whether your state allows a DMV review. Keep the focus on safety and alternatives.

Question 3

What are signs an older parent should stop driving?

Accepted Answer

Getting lost on familiar roads, new dents, near misses, tickets, confusion at intersections, slow reactions, or medical changes affecting vision or memory.

Question 4

How do I talk to my parent about driving?

Accepted Answer

Start early, privately and respectfully. Focus on safety and specific things you’ve noticed, listen to their concerns, and plan alternatives together.

Question 5

What is a driving evaluation?

Accepted Answer

An assessment by an occupational therapist or driver rehabilitation specialist that checks skills on and off the road and recommends next steps.

Question 6

Can a doctor report an unsafe driver?

Accepted Answer

In many states, doctors can (and in some, must) report certain conditions to the DMV, which may review the driver. Rules vary.

Question 7

How will my parent get around if they stop driving?

Accepted Answer

Family rides, public transit, paratransit, ride services, and senior transportation programs. Your Area Agency on Aging can help.

Question 8

Can I report my parent to the DMV?

Accepted Answer

Many states let family members ask the DMV to review a driver. Check your state’s process.

Common questions: Talking about driving